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We firmly believe that you do not need to be drinking alcohol every day for it to affect your life. Whether you're struggling with occasional binge drinking, dependency, or simply want to explore a healthier lifestyle, we are here to support you on your journey. The anxiety, Dis-regulated nervous systems, Past traumas, Ill health, Mental health struggles, The sickness and how poisoning ourselves weaves into creating so many personal problems. That feeling of always running on empty. Just getting through. ​ BUT it doesn't have to be this way. ​ Having spent a lifetime struggling with the effects of alcohol and drugs from teenage years well into my adult hood, I felt trapped as socially it was at every event, in every shop, on the tv, even written into song lyrics. And most people I knew drank. ​ Christmas, Birthdays, Bbqs, Holidays, Its sunny, Its halloween, At a wedding, At a festival...... ​ The list is pretty endless isn't it? ​ I honestly never thought I would ever be able to get out of the trap. But it was ruining everything. I found that most people around me drank at every opportunity.  But it was draining my life. And with one ill health after another,  not only was I struggling physically, but my life was blurred into one weekend after another as I struggled to cope, using alcohol to mask over not feeling very confident, Boredom or emotional pain I wasn't dealing with.  Short burst of sobriety was like little test runs but I struggle to keep it going as old programs came flooding back and I lacked any support.  Once again my ill health took a hold and, me being me, I ignored it and went to a festival. I left being taken to the hospital with sepsis. ​ That was the time I decided to choose a totally different path. That was the time I became so done with repeating this behaviour. I made a video and put it out publicly that this was what I was going to do and I have been blogging my journey ever since (just over three years) Within one year I had transformed my life from survival mode and constant ill health, into a vibrant world I never thought possible! My health returned, I wasn't feeling sick every day. I wasn't bone tired every single day. My mind was clear. I learnt to sit in my anxiety and my nervous system began to regulate. I created multiple business, I managed to push through my anxiety and start preforming live  (something I could ever do whilst drinking) I made multiple new tracks and music videos. I started to learn how to socialise again surrounded by everyone who drank. I have been travelling the world, Re-trained, Got married and have had countless weeks and weekends with no regrets, no ill health, no hangovers. I have become stronger, More grounded. And unbelievably happier. With ZERO REGRETS! NOT ONE. ​ It can feel a lonely road.  Which is why we created  SEXY SOBER ​ In a world were it feels like it has been set up to make us fail at sobriety and all the publicity that glamorises getting drunk. OUR MISSION IS TO FLIP THIS. ​ Glamorising having your life together. Glamorising courage to sit with your emotions and in turn, become more balanced and more connected to yourself. Glamorising healthy minds and body. Glamorising still going out and socialising but with ourselves intact. And more importantly. Getting YOU back to YOU. BEING ABLE TO CREATE A LIFE OF YOUR CHOOSING. BEING ABLE TO THRIVE. ​ We offer 1-1 sobriety life coaching therapy courses using Hypnosis and NLP to flip those programs as well as our Sexy Sober Events to help connect you with like minded individuals, learning that you are not missing out on anything but in fact are gaining everything. We not only believe, but know that choosing sobriety can be a truly empowering decision, allowing you to fully embrace your true self, build stronger relationships, improve your physical and mental well-being, and unlock your full potential. With our support, you can discover a new world of possibilities and create a life that is vibrant, fulfilling, and free from the limitations of alcohol.